I don't think there are any exceptions. If you don't think you have, it's because you haven't found them yet.
War Hero In My Family is a new programme on Channel 5 here in the UK. It is on Tuesday nights at 8pm. I haven't seen last nights episode, so this is not a review, but it seems like a good idea. The focus is on the Second World War.
Not a video to watch, but a good soundtrack for this blog, by the excellent John Tams.
If you are looking at discovering the War Heroes in your family, from almost any time period, the internet can be of use. Ancestry, in the UK and on its Worldwide sites, has many records relating to military service. An example of what the UK site has to offer:
- First World War Service and Pension Records - these are incomplete, sadly, due to bombing during the Second World War.
- Battle of Waterloo Medal Roll - lists those who fought in the 100 day campaign.
- Army Roll of Honour - First & Second World War casualties.
- British Army service records 1760-1915 - this is a truly massive resource.
- Napoleonic War records.
- Regimental records for Manchester City, Paddington Rifles, Royal Fusiliers, Royal Artillery.
- Royal Marine medal roll, 1914-1920.
- Royal Naval Division records, 1914-1919.
- Military Nurses, 1856-1940. - Not all heroes are male!
The Commonwealth War Graves Commission
This is a free site you can search for anyone who died in active service and receive details of their place of burial or remembrance. There are normally extra details, such as regiment or ship served on, rank and next of kin.
The Soldier in Later Medieval England
If you are looking further back in time, this database covers the 14th & 15th centuries.
Canadian Great War Project
Excellent resource for those with Canadian ancestry - as the title suggests this relates to the First World War.
National Archives of Australia
You can order hard copies of documents, but many are already scanned in online. Second World War service records are on this site, free to view.
And if you can't find what you need, try google. There's a whole host of websites dedicated to specific regiments, ships, wars and battles. Get in touch with people and ask for help.
As an idea of what you may find, here are a few War Heroes from my own family:
Laurie Arthur Mealing - pre-war soldier who served at Gallipoli and in France with the Border Regiment. Died on the 1st July, 1916, at the Battle of the Somme.
Gabriel Finch - served with the Royal Artillery through Portugal and Spain with Wellington, chasing Napoleon back to France. Survived and died at home in Kent at the grand age of 84 in 1855.
Orlando James Lloyd - pre-war soldier who served with the Suffolk regiment in France. Died at the infamous, and crucial, Battle of La Cateau on 26 August 1914.
Sidney John Douglas Thompson - signed up for the Royal Navy as a boy in 1933 and travelled the world. Spent the war on HMS Kent - torpedoed in the Mediterranean near Libya. The Kent was then transferred to Arctic Convoy duty for two years, arguably one of the harshest environments of the war.
Prince Frederick Finch - yes, his name really was Prince, although he preferred Fred. Served in the Rifle Brigade in the Crimea.
I could go on all day listing names, but giving such brief mentions to them seems wrong. The point to take from this is you will find heroes. And they won't all be perfect - you'll read about them, warts and all, in their service records. The thing that unites them all is that they were there at the events that shaped our nation, for better or worse. They were witnesses to things many of us cannot possibly imagine.
And once you find those heroes you will find you remember them often, sometimes unexpectedly. I spoke to one fellow researcher who thought of his great-grandfather everyday, despite never knowing him. He drew such inspiration from him.